Top Tips for the Busy New Mum

Top Tips for the Busy New Mum

Motherhood brings all sorts of feelings. While you expect to feel joy all the time, it is also scary to think that the life of something so small is in your hands. It can be overwhelming at times, especially in the busy world that we live in. Don’t worry though; many women have been in the same position and offer tips to help deal with this time.

superwomanYou Don’t Have to be Superwoman!

Things will go wrong. You’ll forget a change of clothes or you’ll spill mil everywhere! Your baby may cry when out in public and not want to sleep, no matter how tired she is.

That’s just the way it is. You don’t need to be superwoman so don’t put that pressure on yourself! Go with the flow; you’ll laugh about it in the future.

pair-kitchen-man-helpSay Yes to Help

Like being superwoman, you don’t need to do everything yourself.

There will be people offering help, whether it is to hold the baby while you bring the car around when it’s pouring down with rain or to help carry the buggy down the stairs.

You can – and should! – say yes when people offer the help. You’ll be surprised by how easier it is.

children-mothers-partyMeet Up with Your Friends

Being stuck inside the house with a newborn isn’t fun. Yes, you need to catch up on sleep but you also need to get out of the house and socialise.

Arrange to see your friends or family members; they will want to see the little one anyway. If you can’t get out for any reason, ask them to come over and bring snacks so you can catch up on the gossip.

woman-resting-gardenLet Things Wait

The grass doesn’t need cutting. The washing up can wait. This is a special moment for you and your newborn.

When you get a chance, spend some time together just snuggling up on the couch. This helps her settle as she will hear the familiar heartbeat and will help you bond with her.

father-newborn-baby-dadLet Hubby Take Her for a While

Get some time to yourself and let your partner look after the newborn for a while.

You could go to the spa or just catch up on sleep! This is a great chance for your partner to bond with his new baby and for her to get used to daddy!

baby-mother-bedAllow Yourself Time to Adjust

Similar to the fact that you’re not superwoman, this isn’t something that comes naturally for all; no matter how much you’d like it to.

There’s no instruction manual and every baby is different. Give yourself time to adjust to having a new person in the house and to the schedule that she decides to set.

sleepless-night-insomniaAlternate the Nights

If you have a partner with you on the night, try alternating the nights. This works best if you’re willing to combine feeding with breast and bottle.

It allows one of you to get a full night’s sleep – although you’ll probably wake up anyway (all mums do!).

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