Want Kinky Sex? Here are Some Beginner Tips

Want Kinky Sex? Here are Some Beginner Tips

Spicing up your sex life may be at the top of your to-do list. There are many ways to do this and introducing something kinky could be a great option. However, you can’t jump straight in there—would you even know where to start? Here are some tips to help you begin and then you can develop from there.

Blindfold-sexyStart with a Blindfold

Spice it up by not letting your partner see what you are doing to him. It’s amazing how much the other senses react when one is shut off. Your sense of touch will become more apparent and forceful when a blindfold is used.

You will need to make sure you trust each other for this to work. Lay sensual kisses along the body and touch every little part. He is sure to enjoy it.

Bondage-sexyTry a Little Bondage

Get the soft scarves or ties out and try some bondage. You could tie arms to the opposite side of the bed or just tie them together above the head—it will depend on the type of headboard you have.

Don’t tie it too tight and make sure you have a safety word—this will serve you well as it develops later.

sex-couple2Use Some Dirty Talk

Dirty talk really turns a man on and is a great way to ease into the kinky sex. Try it during foreplay and keep it quiet and sensual.

It can be embarrassing at first if you’ve never done it before but it will develop as you keep going.

sex-handcuffsAct Out Your Fantasies

Find out what his deepest fantasies are and act them out for him. He will soon do the same for you. Don’t judge—it can be embarrassing sharing what you would really like to happen.

There are many couples who will choose to have a fantasy night once a month that they both look forward to. Invest in a few costumes and make the fantasies come to life.

Toys-sexAdd the Toys and Equipment

Toys are great for spicing up your sex life. You could introduce a few vibrators or just have a few fun items to play with.

A feather, fan or masks are great to add another dimension to the bedroom. Feathers are great for using on the body to add a different touch. They also work well with the blindfold.

sex-coupleStart Slow and Work Your Way Up

As a tip for beginning, start off slow. You don’t want to introduce the big stuff first—not only will the smaller stuff be anti-climatic but you could scare off your partner.

Start off slow and gain your confidence in this part of your sex life.

sex-couple3Trust Each Other

Trust is the most important part of kinky sex. If you don’t trust your partner to follow the rules, you won’t want to let him tie you up and leave you stranded somewhere.

Have a safe word (that isn’t stop!) and use it when you find it’s getting too uneasy—and accept when he wants to stop to build up the trust.

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