Not Having Something in Common in the Future

You may hear a lot about couples who split up because they no longer find that they have something in common. However, it’s not that they don’t like the same things anymore—more that they have forgotten about the things they loved to do.

When children come along and life gets in the way, it’s really easy to grow apart. You need to bring back old memories of the things that you would do and revisit them.

Ending Up Like a Specific Couple

If you already know married couples, you may have some that you fear you’ll end up like. It could be your own parents who don’t talk anymore or a friend who constantly argues with her husband.

The trick is to looking out for the signs that you are becoming that couple; the things that the couple did in the past. You could also look at couples who are happy and have great relationships and mimic the things that they have done.

You’re No Longer Yourself

As you become a wife and possibly a mother, you start to lose track of who you were before you got married. It’s a fear many women have, but you can prevent it from happening.

There is nothing wrong with taking time out for yourself. You could have a girl’s night out once a week, or take trips away with family to remember who you once were.

Making Sacrifices Leads to Resentment

There will always be some form of give and take in a relationship. You may worry that you’ll resent your husband for the sacrifices you chose to make, but there is a way around this.

Remember that he needs to make sacrifices too. If he’s not willing and expects you to do it all, you will resent him—and he may not be the man for you! However, don’t expect him to lose every battle, because he will end up resenting you.

He’ll Look Elsewhere

It’s very common for women to worry that their man is going to leave them as they get older. It’s all to do with age. It’s a fear to get out of your head. The more you focus on it, the more it is likely to happen because he will sense it.

If you do worry about how you look as you get older, you can always act on that in positive ways. Look after your skin and change your hairstyle—but do it for you and not just to stop him from leaving! Just remember that he’s marrying you knowing you’ll both get old.

Where You Are Shot

You usually wake up just as the gun goes off but it still feels real enough. Nightmares involving being shot – or sometimes beaten to death – is a sign that there is confrontation somewhere in your life.

This could be with a partner, a parent or even at the workplace. Your subconscious is telling you that you need to deal with that confrontation.

Teeth Falling Out

This is arguably the most common nightmare that women suffer from. It usually happens due to rejection (or fear of being rejected). The teeth are linked to attraction, which is linked to being approved or rejected.

The rejection in real life doesn’t have to be linked to appearances. It could be about finances, a job promotion or a special place in someone’s life.

Being Trapped Somewhere

This is not a sign that you are claustrophobic. Many people have a dream that they are trapped, whether they are trapped in the house or in a cave. It comes from that fear that you are trapped somewhere in your life.

This could be your job, in a loveless relationship or in a city that you hate. You may just be fed up of the same daily routine of going to work, coming back and then going to sleep.

Being Chased

If you are being chased in a dream, whether by an animal or person, it is a sign that you are running from something in real life.

This could be an insecurity or fear that you will fail at something or that you are running away from confrontation or sticking up for yourself.

The Car Is Out of Control

Have you ever had that dream where the car won’t stop or you have no control over the steering?

This isn’t a sign that your own car is going to do that – although no-one will judge you for checking the brakes before you get on the highway! In the dream, the car is something else in your life that you have no control over, even though you want or need it.

You Can’t Breathe

Breathing is your life force so when you can’t breathe in your dream, your subconscious is sending you an important message.

It is telling you that you need to slow down and let your body rest!

You Die

It doesn’t matter how it happens, dreaming that you die is a scary thought. The good news is that this isn’t a bad thing!

Like the death card in the tarot cards, it is a sign of change.