You’ve been dating for a while now but he still hasn’t made that move to kiss you. It’s common to start thinking there’s a problem with you, but that’s not always the case. There are many reasons for a man to avoid this stage of the relationship. Here are some of the most likely reasons for him not to kiss you.
He’s Waiting for You to Make the Move
Do you know much about his previous relationships? It is possible that he’s come from relationships where the girl has made every move and he’s waiting for you to do the same. On the other hand, he could just be so nervous that he wants you to indicate that you want to kiss him.
He Thinks It’s Too Soon
He’s trying to find the right time to kiss you but right now may seem too soon. It’s up to you to discuss this with him and even possibly make that first move.
Feeling like it is too soon could be for a variety of reasons, including bad previous relationships and you not showing signs that you want to take it to the next level. He may even just be nervous!
That Last Breakup Is Still in the Back of His Mind
You may have moved on from your last relationship but he hasn’t. That breakup could still be in the back of his mind and he doesn’t want the same thing to happen with you.
He’s figured if doesn’t make the move, the relationship won’t get to the point where he doesn’t want to lose you. He could like you so much that he’s scared of making a mistake and that last argument with his ex is still at the back of his mind.
You’re Giving Him Mixed Signals
He’s waiting to see whether you want to take the relationship to the next stage. No matter how clear you think your signals are, they could be mixed to him. One minute you seem cold and the next you make it clear you want him to kiss you.
It can be really confusing for a guy and he prefers to sit back and wait for the perfect time instead of trying to guess your signals. If you want him to kiss you, just tell him. That way he can’t mix up your intentions.
He’s Waiting for that Perfect Moment
You may have ended up with the romantic guy who’s looking for the perfect moment.
This can seem annoying for you, but it will be worth it in the end. Give him the chance to create that special moment. If it doesn’t come soon, you can always discuss it with him.
He’s Just Not that into You
You’ve waited and waited and he still hasn’t made a move. It could be that he’s not interested in you. That kiss will lead you to think there is something more, but he’s trying to avoid it to let you down gently.
The only way you can find out if this is the reason is by outright asking him.